24 Jan 10
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What else is there to do than to love the rejection?
I was at a loss for what to write, I was compelled to write, but just not feeling inspired – so I asked my tweeps and peeps for suggestions and one of them was “What else is there to do than to love the rejection”. My immediate thought was YEAH, now that is a kick-ass concept.
I believe that rejection is actually a confirmation that whatever I have been rejected for simply is not right for me, a job I don’t get or a project I don’t get to lead or a man who isn’t in to me. It is all confirmation – just not meant to be. But, in that moment of rejection the knowledge of it being “not right” makes it no easier to stomach.
I cannot imagine sighing; a breath of relief “aaaah, rejection… I welcome you“. But, you know what? That might be just the way to deal with it! Whooping it up with a “whohoo! Thanks rejection, you just saved me from a hideous mistake”. Maybe doing a little gratitude to the rejection Gods dance and sacrificing a maiden or two on the pyre of rejection.
So really what else is there to do but LOVE the rejection, wallow in it, take a bath in it ‘til you get all pruney, take it out for a fancy dinner and a lay. Yeah, love that rejection, remember if it doesn’t want you, you SURE as hell don’t want it!
